Monday, November 01, 2004

The S.P.E.C.I.A.L. Guy God has planned for me...

Spirituality He must be a constantly growing Christian, a man after God's heart, a servant leader. He must be a good steward of what has been placed in his charge. He should be constantly striving to be the best at whatever he does, so as to glorify God. (1 Corinthians 4:2 - Moreover it is required in stewards, that a man be found faithful.)


Personality determined, adventurous, directive, initiative, vivacious, interactive, stable, organised, reliable, sincere, supportive, conscientious, cautious


Emotional Emotionally stable/ balance. Able to express himself clearly. Not afraid to cry. Not afraid to love.


Character Has the fruit of the spirit - love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gratefulness, gentleness and self-control. Not a quitter. Has integrity and righteous. Flexible guy who can adapt to sudden situations, knowing the right time to be firm or yield.


Intellectual Able to hold a decent conversation with people upon the first acquaintance. Smart enough to not bore me to death. (I'm easily bored) Able to banter with me and intrigue me with questions. Have a good sense of humour that would crack me up. Creative, able to think out of the box.


Aptitude Sporty (Can blade, skate, dribble, climb, swim etc. You get the idea) Arty (appreciates art at least) Musically inclined (Plays at least one instrument) Able to hold a tune well (doesn't sing out of tune)  At least support me in my artistic attempts as a theater practitioner.


Looks Taller than me. Well-groomed. Good-looking (need not be handsome, more like having a likeable appearance, won't get beaten up because of his looks) An accurate reflection of the condition of his heart.

These are the things I look for in a guy... Though Looks are not of most importance... I am still listing it down... I think this is basically the importance I would want it to be... But I am sure God would provide... And the guy provided by God would definitely fit all these criteria...


 

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