Bought the book God's gift to women with Des for Dale on his birthday... But right now this question bugs me... especially after talking to Von... So what is God's gift to women exactly?
I dunno but the guys I know right now, those that can be considered godly, I can count by the fingers on my hand... And sad to say, some are already given by our King to one of His princesses or too young for His older princess like me... (haha) But what I really find sad about is the fact that there are so few guys out there that can be considered a gentleman, who has no hidden agenda being nice to his fellow sister-in-Christ... *sigh* This just goes to show how
much we need to reach out more... So that God's daughters have no reason to say that there is no guys in Church, that's why they are looking at non-Christians...
I believe, someday my prince will come... (Acts 1:10)
Last night after congre, was waiting for Von's papa to come and pick us up... Thank God for Von staying so near me... (HAHA! God please let me pass my driving test on 26 May 2005 8am so that I can in return bless this daugther of yours with rides home...) Anyway, as we waited, we talked and she was sharing with me about how upset she is with a certain someone... Aiyo this person should just be shot! (Lord I pray that You bring someone into his life to teach him how to treat girls with respect, and not like they are his source of entertainment...) We ended up talking about how the guys nowadays seems to only fall into the WP category... For someone like Von who has manophobia (a termed she coined), these kinda guys just irks her... I guess any girl in the right frame of mind would be irked by these WP guys... I am disgusted... [For those wondering what WP stands for, it is one of the categorised group of guys that Von and Des had come up with in their boredom (I think...)] Shall just cut and paste from Von's entry from a distant time ago...
"We have classified guys into basically 6 categories. [yes,yes a little broad, but guys r not very complicated creatures anyway]
1)The Hairy Poop.[Common Name: The Hollow Space in the Rear End]
Guys who belong to this category are the worst of the worst. as you can read from the name itself. I don't really know anyone who belongs to this category...but i guess they are the guys you watch in soap drama series, where they make girls pregnant and then dump them. you know, that sort. and oh~ guys who date like 5 girls in a row thinking that their mojo is kicking when all they need is a kick in the rear end.
2) The Worm Poop.[Common Name: The Desperate One]
Sadly, I do know a couple of guys in this category. Shall not really mention who...if not people might just tell jefferson and his friend[s]. oops. have i mentioned any names?? These are the guys who are constantly on a "lookout". i don't think that aforementioned male
specimen needs his spectacles...i think he should be using binoculars, at the rate that he looks out for potential girlfriends. Don't understand why they can jump from one girl to the next thinking that the feeling is romantic love. Ignorant poopies they are~
*author's note: aforementioned male specimen does have his redeemable qualities but that is not the focus of our discussion. so...too bad for him.
3) The Hairy Worm. [Common Name: The Unsure]
Well, this is slight elevation from The Worm Poop. Don't really know who to fit into this category. just made it up coz it sounds funny. or maybe this could be the "miscellaneous" category. when you can't exactly decide to put a guy into the Worm Poop category or the category which i am about to introduce due to lack of evidence or informative facts.
4) The Worm. [Common Name: The Common One]
This is the broadest of all the categories. Basically most guys fit into this category [if you don't fit into any of the above and the below] and there is no real negative connotation to belonging in this category, despite the nasty sounding name. Just that you have to prove that you have that ooomph before you can belong to the prestigious blink blink category below.
5) The Butterfly[Common Name: The Boyfriend Every Girl Deserves To Have]
Before you think that this is an unattainable standard, fret not. because i do know a couple of guys who belong to this category. and i guess mel should be pleased to know that her boyfriend belongs to this category. we're not asking for perfection, but guys who are nice to girls with no "impure" motives whatsoever. guys who do sweet things for their girlfriends without their girlfriends hinting with a loudspeaker in their face, and guys who love God above all. and Jesus would be The Butterfly of all butterflies.
6) The Worm in the Soil (not from this earth)
The reason why this category was mentioned last is not because it is the ultimatum of the list. The reason is because this category is out of the list. Have you ever met a guy
where you totally wonder whether if he has any thinking organs installed in him?? Have you ever had a conversation with a guy that you totally have no idea what you both are conversing and yet he could still go on and on and on?? Have
you ever met a guy that you think might have a imaginary friend called Jar Jar Binks?? Well, this is THE category for such people. I am sure Chua can easily fit one into this category. "
(Yes I definitely can fit one into the category of TWITS... But I shan't divulge more... Those who know me will know who I can fit into this cat... But I also thank God that I only know one guy who fit into the TWITS, but know a handful f guys who fit into the Butterfly category... The rest of the guys well, they fit into the Worm category la...)
Anyways, we were talking about children, marriage and stuff... I was saying that I had always wanted to get married by 23... So I have about +/- 2 years to go la... Simply calculating the time needed, if I really wanted to get married by 23... First of all, I would most definitely need to have a BF who is going to marry me, by this year... That is if we only date for a year... Coz he must propose by the end of that year, so that we can then go for Marriage Preparation Course (MPC), which lasts one year... So by the end of 2 years, we'll be ready for
marriage... Just nice I'll by 23 then... Haha...
So in jest I said aloud, "If God You will me to get married by 23, provide the guy you have planned for me before Valentine's Day this year... Haha... If not Your will for me to be married by 23, then whatever la huh... Up to You God..."
Looking back at it, I felt so foolish... Von then warned me about the things I ask God for in jest... He might just be laughing at me for being so silly... I know...
God, laugh ok? You created me this way, for Your pleasure, so enjoy me ok?
Back to where I was, well, words spoken out are claims we've made, cannot take back... But then we were looking at all the guys around us, how WP they can be, I realised that getting married at 23 is definitely impossible la... The guys I know are all either still in NS, or school... None has the financial capabilities to settle down and start a family in 3 years time... Still, it's God's plans and His will, not mine... Your will be done O Lord, not mine...
Bottomline is that God would only provide His Best! Nothing short of it... So in the mean time, both Von and I can just stay happily single... Not a problem for me... Have been single my whole life till now, don't really see a need for a life-time partner as yet... It's just that looking at children all day, seeing how adorable they are, and being twenty-ish just makes me feel like I wanna have my own adorable tots... Guess I probably am not marriage material... I just want kids, would probably neglect my husband, cause I think it's not a husband I want... I simply just want children... Haha... So silly of me... But I know that my God will provide... And to quell all these nonsensical thoughts, He has even planned a whole series of marriage sermons for the next few Saturdays entitled - Lord of the Rings... God just simply know our thoughts before we even voice them out... Words just can't express how in awe I am of my God... He knows me sooooo well... =)
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